How should I phrase my first message when I find a woman I like and want to contact her?
I have been using:
Hi, I’m Tim. I’ve just read your profile, and you sound interesting.
Let me tell you a bit about me. I’m 28 years old, I am training to be a driving insructor. I like pubs and clubs, I like travelling and going on holiday. I like all music, I like listening to all different bands. Occasionally I chill out at home watching DVDs.
I would like to find out more about you. If you are interested please check out my profile and get in touch. Hope to hear from you soon.
Problem is I’m not getting any replies, I’ve tried contacting lots of women on the website in my quest to find a girlfriend. My profile tells them more about me but they are just not responding. I’m not a bad looking man, I have got a beard which is neat and maybe makes me look older.
I’m not sure if my first message is quite right or is it my profile in general that is not appealing? Is it that my message comes across as laid back, or is that a good thing?
Can anyone out there help me please? How do I word my message to get women interested so they contact me? Any advice greatly appreciated.