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My online girlfriend lives in another country and we only talk online for now. Is there anything I can send her or that I can do online that she would appreciate as a Valentine’s present?

I don’t want to send her an e-card because I think that is bit ordinary. I would like to do as much as I can to show her how I feel and I want to find the best thing that online couples can do.

Does anyone have any good ideas that they have tried. Thanks in advance.

We think this video is full of good advice and tips to help you in your online profile, to help you with your first messages to contact the girl that you like and even tips on how to move forward to meeting her. These tips help you to understand how women react to you and how to approach in the correct way. Finding a girlfriend online can be and should be fun! Good Luck!

How should I phrase my first message when I find a woman I like and want to contact her?

I have been using:

Hi, I’m Tim. I’ve just read your profile, and you sound interesting.

Let me tell you a bit about me. I’m 28 years old, I am training to be a driving insructor. I like pubs and clubs, I like travelling and going on holiday. I like all music, I like listening to all different bands. Occasionally I chill out at home watching DVDs.

I would like to find out more about you. If you are interested please check out my profile and get in touch. Hope to hear from you soon.

Tim x

Problem is I’m not getting any replies, I’ve tried contacting lots of women on the website in my quest to find a girlfriend. My profile tells them more about me but they are just not responding. I’m not a bad looking man, I have got a beard which is neat and maybe makes me look older.

I’m not sure if my first message is quite right or is it my profile in general that is not appealing? Is it that my message comes across as laid back, or is that a good thing?

Can anyone out there help me please? How do I word my message to get women interested so they contact me? Any advice greatly appreciated.

I like to think I’m good at dating girls, although I do feel like I’m always the one who arrange’s them.

I have had three dates so far with a girl I met on online dating. She was the first to propose that we should meet but I was the one who ended up arranging it and asking when she was free etc. She always says that she looks forward to seeing me but she is never the one to ask me out.

Does anyone have any advice? It would make a nice change if she said to me ‘Hey do you want to, etc’

We found this video and thought it was worth posting on the site to give you a smile! As you are trying to find a girlfriend online you will be looking for all sorts of things to talk about that aren’t just about you and her, but about other things going on in the world. Well, if you watch this to the end so you get the full story, then we have just given you a great subject for your first face to face date that should spark off some conversation and maybe get some laughs going between the two of you! Hope you enjoy!

As usual, let us know what you think!

You can avoid this critical mistake that many men make when trying to find a girlfriend. So, you’ve found a girl that you’d like to meet. Now, what do you say to her in that crucial first email? How do you capture her interest so that she’ll actually give you a chance? And… what are the biggest things to avoid saying to women online? Watch this short 2 minute video to find out the answers to these questions and more.

O.K. Is she interested in me or not?

Been chating online for 3 months, finally met but we seemed to be talking just like friends. After nearly two hours of being together she started to say she was getting tired so I took her home though we were chatting all the time. She was laughing and smiling. No hugs, no kisses but she was kind. I told her I’d love to meet her again and she just just replyed “See you”

Does that mean I’m waisting my time with her? Would you girls do the same if not interested in your partner?

Okay, so I lead a fairly busy life. My job isn’t really the best way to meet new girls. I’m not really a ‘club’ or even much of a pub person. I do go to these places but I’m not a drinker, and I’m not too keen on visiting these places to find a girlfriend if I’m being honest.
I find it difficult to meet attractive, single girls living the life I lead right now. In your opinion what is the best way to obtain some dates and meet new women via online dating sites? I know this is a tricky question, but any advice and tips you can offer will be appreciated as I would love to give this a try.

This clip is taken from an American TV show, and the guy here has some great advice on how you should act when making a first impression with a girl that you like. He talks about not playing games and being over confident. He also mentions that the wrong place to meet someone is in a nightclub as girls and guys tend to get drunk and then people are attarcted to others for the wrong reason. This is one of the great benefits of using find a girlfriend. You can be confident using text to start with, and if things go well, by the time you actually talk or meet the girl you’ve been searching for, you will feel more natural and at ease to talk to her as you already know a bit about her.

This video gives some advice on what you should and shouldn’t do when you are creating your online dating profile. Good advice about how to use photos, and some of the things you should and shouldn’t include in your profile with the reasons why. We hope you find the video useful, please add any tips of your own in the comments box below.