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I am thinking of meeting up with this girl I have been talking to on an online dating site. After the date, if I find there is no chemistry between us, how I do I respectfully end it with her without being rude? I want to be honest, but not come accross as harsh. Do I tell her at the end of the date that there was no chemistry and maybe I won’t want to see her again? Do I say it was nice meeting her and say I’ll be in touch then call, email or text her to tell her that I think we should go our seperate ways? I don’t want to be the typical bloke who never calls back, it’s happened to me before in the past and I don’t want to do that to any girl.

Any advice welcome

Listen to April! She advises that you have at least 5 different places you can go for your first date when you are online dating. The idea is that if you take a girl out on a Monday and have someone else lined up for the next day also, then you don’t want to be going into the same bar or restaurant in case the waiter recognises you and says something to you like, “Hi! It’s you again! You are with someone different tonight?”

Trying to find a girlfriend isn’t easy in the first place, so you don’t want to ruin your chances by taking all your dates to the same place. Just imagine you are on a date with the one girl that you think could end up being a long term girlfriend for you, and then the bar tender starts talking about how you are in this place every night with a different girl. Not good eh?!

So take the advice and have at least 5 different venues to choose from to take your dates, and make sure they are classy places too!