Will I Be Single Forever?
I’m 23 and am still looking for a girlfriend! I have had a few dates but they never work out.
I am a confident sociable guy, and find it easy to talk to women, I just never know at what point I should make a move, or what signs to look for if they do like me! I know I would treat her with respect and look after her. All the time I see ‘other guys’ who have found girlfriends and I don’t know where I’m going wrong!
I try not to worry, but I see happy couples all the time, which makes it worse! I really want be as happy as all other couples, I don’t know why girls don’t seem to want me!
Even my friends that I didn’t think would find someone for a while have found someone now. I’m not expecting to find the perfect girl, but none of the girlsI like have liked me back!
I always wanted to save my first time for someone I love and make it special, but is it worth waiting?
Can there really be someone special out there for me? Or will I be single forever?
3 Responses to “Will I Be Single Forever?”
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Stop looking and it will happen. Just go out to enjoy yourself. Talk to people that you meet, both men and women. Do this without any further intentions than getting to meet people, being sociable and having a good time. If you don’t go home with anyone, just be happy that you had a good evening as that was the goal you set yourself when you went out. That way you’ll look good and you will be your true self at your best. for the world to see. When you go out and only talk to women, obviously wanting more, this looks desperate, and desperate is not a good look. Just remember that women are just ordinary people like men, no better nor worse and don’t put them on a pedestal like some superior beings, that’s not what they want. These things always happen when you least expect it, if you allow them.
Stay optimistic.. with your current attitude you may stay single. You must take it easy and don’t worry so much about it! Be yourself and your time will come.
You have to start believing that you won’t be lonely forever. You have to stop looking so hard. It’s strange but if you stop looking so hard and be yourself then you will find someone.
It really works.